Spreader Bars
Take total control of your partner's body and pleasure with a spreader bar. Spreader bars are ideal for kinky dominance play, as you can fixate your partner's legs or arms in a spread out position and do whatever you please with their body.
Spreader Bars - An Exciting Form of Restriction
What Is a Spreader Bar?
A spreader bar is a bondage device designed to keep the wearer’s limbs apart, thereby limiting their movements. The most common type is a leg spreader, which attaches to the ankles, forcing the legs open and leaving the wearer’s intimate areas exposed. Some bars also come with wrist cuffs, allowing you to secure both arms and legs in a fixed position.
Many sex spreader bars are adjustable, so you can change the level of restriction to suit your comfort and experience level. Others come in fixed lengths for a firmer restraint. Whether you prefer a light restriction or a full immobilisation, a bondage spreader bar can add an element of dominance and submission (the DS in BDSM) to your bondage play that enhances pleasure and anticipation.
Types of BDSM Spreader Bars
When choosing a BDSM spreader bar, there are three parameters you should consider: experience level, flexibility and functionality. Ask yourself whether you are an experienced BDSM practitioner, how flexible your body is and how important it is that you have a product with several functions. If you, for example, are a novice when it comes to BDSM spreader bars, you might want to choose a rather simple construction with comfortable bondage cuffs.
Generally speaking, spreader bars can be divided into four categories:
Adjustable Spreader Bars – These allow you to modify the distance between the restraints, making them ideal for beginners who want flexibility.
The Rimba Spreader Bar Metal Adjustable is a versatile option featuring three separate bars with two locking pins, four carabiner hooks and four rings for both hand and ankle cuffs (not included). The bar is adjustable, enabling a range of restraint possibilities. One of our satisfied customers wrote this about the BDSM spreader in his 5-star review:
“Suitable for kinky play with which you can cuff your hands and feet so you can concentrate on pleasuring yourself while the sub stays well controlled.” - Iso A, 12. January 2022
Fixed-Length Spreader Bars – These provide a firm and unchanging restraint, perfect for those who enjoy strict positioning.
Zado Floor Pillory is a highly popular choice among our fixed-length bars with its four connected bars, designed for the user to be on all fours. MKJ wrote this glowing review about the BDSM spreader system:
“An absolute must-have! You never go completely wrong in town with ZADO and this humbler is really no exception. If, like me, you do not have all the space at home to have it standing, then it is great that it can be assembled and disassembled when and how it suits you. There are a myriad of options for BDSM play and it is really only your desires that set the limits for play.[...]” - 1. October 2015
Spreader Bars with Cuffs – Many options come with built-in ankle or wrist cuffs, ensuring a secure fit. Some use Velcro for quick release, while others have lockable buckles for a more intense experience.
If you are looking for a BDSM spreader bar of this type, then Sportsheets’ Expand Spreader Bar with Cuffs is highly recommended among our customers. Just take a look at what Johnny had to say in his glowing 5-star review:
“This one is awesome! It can be spread properly as it has a good size. If we want to cosy up a bit, we just fasten her legs, but if I want total control and dominance, I fasten her hands as well. The mental and emotional tension rises immediately as soon as she sees it. It delivers heat.” - 26. March 2023
Combination Spreader Bars – Some designs connect both wrists and ankles, restricting movement even further for total submission.
The Fetish Fantasy Spread´em Bar and Handcuffs set includes one leg spreader and one spreader for the hands, as well as attached cuffs and a strap to connect the two bars. This means that the wearer can be restrained in many positions, and under the total control of the dominant partner. A very happy customer had to this to say about the spreader bar set:
”Fun adventure for those who want to explore. Good materials and easy to use. Like that there is a bar for the hands too.” - Sara, 19. February 2022
Why Use a Bondage Spreader Bar?
The main appeal of a bondage spreader bar is the combination of restraint and accessibility. When the legs or arms are held apart, movement becomes limited, making the wearer more receptive to every touch, kiss, or spanking. This can heighten arousal and increase anticipation, as the feeling of being unable to move amplifies each sensation.
For couples who enjoy dominant and submissive play, a bondage spreader bar is a fantastic way to explore control and surrender. The dominant partner can take full control, deciding when and how pleasure is given, while the submissive partner enjoys the thrill of helplessness.
How To Use a BDSM Spreader Safely
As with any bondage play, safety is key. Here are a few tips to ensure an enjoyable experience:
Start slow – If you're new to using a BDSM spreader, begin with a wider setting to allow more movement before progressing to tighter restrictions.
Check for comfort – Ensure the cuffs are snug but not too tight. Padding can help prevent discomfort during longer sessions.
Have a safe word – Clear communication is essential, so establish a safe word that allows your partner to signal when they need to stop.
Monitor circulation – If using a bondage spreader bar for an extended period, check that your partner is comfortable and that circulation isn’t restricted.
Learn More About Sex Spreader Bars and BDSM on Sinful's Blog
For those eager to deepen their understanding of sex spreader bars and the broader world of BDSM, Sinful's blog offers a wealth of information. Our expertly crafted articles and guides are designed to educate and inspire, ensuring you have the knowledge to explore your desires safely and confidently.
If you are new to sex spreader bars, and BDSM in general, we recommend reading our beginner’s guide to light bondage. Here you can learn more about what bondage and restraining entails and some of the tools that are suitable for beginners.
Another indispensable read for those interested in spreader bars and other restraining tools is our guide to setting up BDSM sessions. Not only does it give you a blueprint of a typical BDSM session, but it also has useful tips for both parties on how to get the most out of their experiences.
Frequently asked questions about Bondage Spreaders
Many of our customers often ask us the same questions about BDSM spreader bars. Therefore we have compiled them in an FAQ below so that others hopefully can find the answers to their questions.
Are spreader bars safe to use?
Yes, bondage spreader are safe when used responsibly. It's crucial to establish clear communication with your partner, set boundaries, and agree on a safe word. Always monitor for any signs of discomfort or restricted circulation, and never leave a restrained person unattended.
Can spreader bars be used alone?
While spreader bars are commonly used with a partner, some designs allow for solo play. Ensure you have a quick-release mechanism in place and avoid positions that could lead to injury if you're experimenting alone.
How do I clean and maintain my spreader bar?
Proper maintenance depends on the material of your spreader bar. Metal bars can be wiped down with a damp cloth and mild soap, then thoroughly dried to prevent rusting. For bars with attached cuffs, refer to the manufacturer's cleaning instructions, especially if they're made of leather or other sensitive materials.
Reach Out To Us for More Guidance on Spreader Bars
If you have further inquiries about bondage spreaders, BDSM practices, or any other BDSM equipment, please don't hesitate to reach out to our customer service department. We’re here to help you make informed choices, ensuring that you get the most out of your intimate experiences. You can contact us via phone, chat or email Monday through Friday.
A spreader bar is a bondage device designed to keep the wearer’s limbs apart, thereby limiting their movements. The most common type is a leg spreader, which attaches to the ankles, forcing the legs open and leaving the wearer’s intimate areas exposed. Some bars also come with wrist cuffs, allowing you to secure both arms and legs in a fixed position.
Many sex spreader bars are adjustable, so you can change the level of restriction to suit your comfort and experience level. Others come in fixed lengths for a firmer restraint. Whether you prefer a light restriction or a full immobilisation, a bondage spreader bar can add an element of dominance and submission (the DS in BDSM) to your bondage play that enhances pleasure and anticipation.
When choosing a BDSM spreader bar, there are three parameters you should consider: experience level, flexibility and functionality. Ask yourself whether you are an experienced BDSM practitioner, how flexible your body is and how important it is that you have a product with several functions. If you, for example, are a novice when it comes to BDSM spreader bars, you might want to choose a rather simple construction with comfortable bondage cuffs.
Generally speaking, spreader bars can be divided into four categories:
Adjustable Spreader Bars – These allow you to modify the distance between the restraints, making them ideal for beginners who want flexibility.
The Rimba Spreader Bar Metal Adjustable is a versatile option featuring three separate bars with two locking pins, four carabiner hooks and four rings for both hand and ankle cuffs (not included). The bar is adjustable, enabling a range of restraint possibilities. One of our satisfied customers wrote this about the BDSM spreader in his 5-star review:
“Suitable for kinky play with which you can cuff your hands and feet so you can concentrate on pleasuring yourself while the sub stays well controlled.” - Iso A, 12. January 2022
Fixed-Length Spreader Bars – These provide a firm and unchanging restraint, perfect for those who enjoy strict positioning.
Zado Floor Pillory is a highly popular choice among our fixed-length bars with its four connected bars, designed for the user to be on all fours. MKJ wrote this glowing review about the BDSM spreader system:
“An absolute must-have! You never go completely wrong in town with ZADO and this humbler is really no exception. If, like me, you do not have all the space at home to have it standing, then it is great that it can be assembled and disassembled when and how it suits you. There are a myriad of options for BDSM play and it is really only your desires that set the limits for play.[...]” - 1. October 2015
Spreader Bars with Cuffs – Many options come with built-in ankle or wrist cuffs, ensuring a secure fit. Some use Velcro for quick release, while others have lockable buckles for a more intense experience.
If you are looking for a BDSM spreader bar of this type, then Sportsheets’ Expand Spreader Bar with Cuffs is highly recommended among our customers. Just take a look at what Johnny had to say in his glowing 5-star review:
“This one is awesome! It can be spread properly as it has a good size. If we want to cosy up a bit, we just fasten her legs, but if I want total control and dominance, I fasten her hands as well. The mental and emotional tension rises immediately as soon as she sees it. It delivers heat.” - 26. March 2023
Combination Spreader Bars – Some designs connect both wrists and ankles, restricting movement even further for total submission.
The Fetish Fantasy Spread´em Bar and Handcuffs set includes one leg spreader and one spreader for the hands, as well as attached cuffs and a strap to connect the two bars. This means that the wearer can be restrained in many positions, and under the total control of the dominant partner. A very happy customer had to this to say about the spreader bar set:
”Fun adventure for those who want to explore. Good materials and easy to use. Like that there is a bar for the hands too.” - Sara, 19. February 2022
The main appeal of a bondage spreader bar is the combination of restraint and accessibility. When the legs or arms are held apart, movement becomes limited, making the wearer more receptive to every touch, kiss, or spanking. This can heighten arousal and increase anticipation, as the feeling of being unable to move amplifies each sensation.
For couples who enjoy dominant and submissive play, a bondage spreader bar is a fantastic way to explore control and surrender. The dominant partner can take full control, deciding when and how pleasure is given, while the submissive partner enjoys the thrill of helplessness.
How To Use a BDSM Spreader Safely
As with any bondage play, safety is key. Here are a few tips to ensure an enjoyable experience:
Start slow – If you're new to using a BDSM spreader, begin with a wider setting to allow more movement before progressing to tighter restrictions.
Check for comfort – Ensure the cuffs are snug but not too tight. Padding can help prevent discomfort during longer sessions.
Have a safe word – Clear communication is essential, so establish a safe word that allows your partner to signal when they need to stop.
Monitor circulation – If using a bondage spreader bar for an extended period, check that your partner is comfortable and that circulation isn’t restricted.
For those eager to deepen their understanding of sex spreader bars and the broader world of BDSM, Sinful's blog offers a wealth of information. Our expertly crafted articles and guides are designed to educate and inspire, ensuring you have the knowledge to explore your desires safely and confidently.
If you are new to sex spreader bars, and BDSM in general, we recommend reading our beginner’s guide to light bondage. Here you can learn more about what bondage and restraining entails and some of the tools that are suitable for beginners.
Another indispensable read for those interested in spreader bars and other restraining tools is our guide to setting up BDSM sessions. Not only does it give you a blueprint of a typical BDSM session, but it also has useful tips for both parties on how to get the most out of their experiences.
Many of our customers often ask us the same questions about BDSM spreader bars. Therefore we have compiled them in an FAQ below so that others hopefully can find the answers to their questions.
Are spreader bars safe to use?
Yes, bondage spreader are safe when used responsibly. It's crucial to establish clear communication with your partner, set boundaries, and agree on a safe word. Always monitor for any signs of discomfort or restricted circulation, and never leave a restrained person unattended.
Can spreader bars be used alone?
While spreader bars are commonly used with a partner, some designs allow for solo play. Ensure you have a quick-release mechanism in place and avoid positions that could lead to injury if you're experimenting alone.
How do I clean and maintain my spreader bar?
Proper maintenance depends on the material of your spreader bar. Metal bars can be wiped down with a damp cloth and mild soap, then thoroughly dried to prevent rusting. For bars with attached cuffs, refer to the manufacturer's cleaning instructions, especially if they're made of leather or other sensitive materials.
If you have further inquiries about bondage spreaders, BDSM practices, or any other BDSM equipment, please don't hesitate to reach out to our customer service department. We’re here to help you make informed choices, ensuring that you get the most out of your intimate experiences. You can contact us via phone, chat or email Monday through Friday.